Why finding the right job/company to work for, can make a world of difference
I want to help you build the courage you need to believe in yourself, so that you realise that when it comes to your career, there’s nothing you can’t do.
And to help you do this, I want to guide you along the path of getting the right experience.
So, what do I mean when I say “the right experience”?
I mean when you’re in a job that increases your confidence from 0 to 100 and then some.
I mean when your thinking changes from am I any good at this? To, bring it on!
And don’t assume that this is a natural progression that happens over time. You can work for 30 years and never make it to “bring it on” stage. If you don’t believe me, simply refer to Blog #14 – 3 Signs your job is doing you no good, where I provide a real life example of this.
But what I want you to know is that, you can work for one year in the right company and get to “bring it on” stage. It’s not the amount of experience you have, it’s the quality.
What I don’t want to happen to you is when you find yourself in a position where your level of self-belief develops at the same rate that a slug moves, if you get what I mean. And you convince yourself that you have it good, because you have a job and it may be a job that you always thought you’d be happy to have and yet you feel so out of place and so unfulfilled at the same time.
I don’t want you to ever accept this as the way that it has to be because it doesn’t.
How I stumbled upon my “bring it on” experience
If you saw my first video last week, you would’ve heard me talk about what I did to get my first full-time job in the world of marketing. Like you and every other business graduate out there, I was focused on getting my first job. Getting experience. I was extremely focused on getting a marketing job, but didn’t think too much about the company as long as to me it seemed OK.
And, maybe that’s what we need to do, initially, to get our foot in the door. And like everyone else out there, I accepted that some experiences were going to be OK and some weren’t and believed that this was a natural process of developing your career.
So, for the next six years I job hopped.
Yes, with every job there was something new to learn whether big or small, but my overall development was steady. No high spikes or career changing moments.
And then job #8 came along. In one year I developed more than in the six previous years combined.
My thinking went from am I good enough to do this job? To, I could take on the world and win.
What was it about job #8 that made me feel this way?
Now, it’s very hard to explain all the reasons why job #8 was simply a kick-ass job and company to work for. I go into quite a bit of detail in Blog #2 – What loving your job looks like (Part 1) – No protection needed!
But in a nutshell, I found a company whose culture was the right fit for me. Where the people believed in what I believed in. And it’s exactly in these types of environments where you thrive. It’s why I thrived. I never felt more in tune with my managers. Never was there a “why the hell are they getting me to do that?” moment, which happened way too common in my other jobs.
I found a place where I belonged.
But what job #8 also opened my eyes to, was how some experiences can damage you. They can make you lose faith in yourself and make you settle for a job that is beneath you simply because you’re surrounded with the wrong people.
I’ve often asked myself the question, “What if I had the job #8 experience earlier?”
What if I had it within the first two to three years of my career? Gaining that level of self-believe at a younger age simply means that I would’ve done more.
Maybe I would’ve done what I’m doing now about five years ago?
Now, this is something that we’ll never know, but my point is, in other to reach your fullest potential you need to get the self-believe up through the right experiences.
Now, we can all take the approach I did and try a number of jobs until you land the right job, if it ever happens, or you could be more mindful of it and try to get there on purpose.
It’s easier to find what you’re looking for when you know what you want.
So, how do you find the people that believe in what you believe in?
You need to know what you believe in first. And there’s no better person to explain this to you than Simon Sinek.
If you don’t know who he is, then it’s time you did.
Simon Sinek describes finding what you believe in as finding your ‘why’. Your purpose. It’s what gets you up in the morning. When everything else goes to shit your ‘why’ is what keeps you moving. It’s what inspires you.
So, what is your why? What is the reason why you do what you do?
Now, if you’re thinking it’s to make money, gain prestige, this is not your why. This can be a result of your ‘why’, but these motives will lead you along the path of one miserable career. Where if someone asks you if you like your job you’ll tell them “Yes”, but then feel sick in the stomach at the thought of going to work the next day. A feeling that over 80% of people out there experience and have accepted as normal¹.
What I hope this blog post inspires you to do
Find your ‘why’.
Now, you can watch Simon Sinek’s TED Talk, which will give you more information about it. But what I really hope you do is his “Why Discovery Course“. It costs US$129 (about AU$170) and takes about 8-10 hours to do.
Trust me, it’s worth it.
I know what you’re thinking.
Have I done it?
And I can say that finding your why is one of the most worthwhile moments in your life. Things just become clear. Really clear. What you want to achieve becomes clear and all the steps to get there just start to become clear as well.
Blog #17 Tip:
Want to know how you can get your job application to really stand out and not sound like everyone else’s?
Simon Sinek has a Stand Out in the Job Market: Complete Guide that costs $US32. Yep, only about AU$42. I bought it and read it and thought it was great! If only, I had this 10 years ago.
By following his advice you’ll move away from sounding like a robot… “I have highly developed marketing skills and am fully competent in managing multiple projects at the same time. This combined with my advance organisational skills blah blah blah.”
Check out the guide and you’ll see what I mean. You’ll start to sound like an actual person, demonstrating what you can bring to the table that no one else can with your ‘why’.
So, what is your why? Have you ever really thought about it? What are some of the first thoughts that come to mind? I’d love to hear them.
Don’t waste anymore time. Watch Simon Sineks TED Talk – Start with why here.
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See you next week.
¹ Scott Dinsmore, How to find work you love, TEDTalk, 2012.